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Sex, so the saying goes, is kinda like pizza: Even when it’s bad, it’s still pretty good. As both a sex educator and person who’s had sex lacking chemistry, confidence, and communication sex, I think this quote oversells pleasure-free sex and undersells the spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical power of great sex. 

Historically, ‘vanilla’ was just an ingredient in cookies and ‘vibrate’ was something industrial machines did. These days, however, ‘vanilla’ is a specific kind of sex and ‘vibrate’ is a thing bedroom sexcessories do to increase the overall pleasure potential. Indeed, over the last few decades the sexual landscape has completely sexuality. 

Whether you’re about to take your first dip into the anal pond, or are a long time swimmer, there are a few key steps you need to take for a pleasurable sex sesh. Lucky for you, this guide explains exactly what those steps areplus, how to execute them to peachfection. 

As you toss your 2023 paper calendar into the trash (good riddance! sayonara! adios!) amongst the condom wrappers, champagne foil, and tinsel, you’re probably thinking about what kind of energy you want to bring into 2024. This is the time of year when most people sit down and hammer out some New Year’s Resolutions, after all. (Though, let the record show a good reflect-and-resolve can be valuable any time of year). 

This holiday season, kick Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, and Vixen to the curb because there’s a new ride in town! We’re really making Santa Claus cum to town with amazing gift ideas from Cowgirl that are sure to stuff your stockings (or wherever you like) with hole-iday cheer. Saddle up for the Cowgirl Gift Guide!

When you think about the spots on your body you want to be poked and prodded, licked and loved, sucked and slurped, bitten and blown, odds are chest, crotch, and ass are the body parts that come to mind. Three areas jam-packed with nerve-endings, these hot spots deserve all the tender, love, and care you give them. But there are a number of other erogenous zones throughout the body that can also respond pleasurably (even orgasmically) to a little tongue, hand, or toy action. Ahead, sex educators share the 6 erogenous zones that deserve to be incorporated and priortized to play, be it solo, partnered, or multi-partnered.  

Maybe your boyfriend loves having his bum boinked. Maybe you’re a dude who has pegging fantasies. Maybe you’ve simply got questions about the relationship between The Cowgirl sex acts and sexuality. 

Whatever the reasons, you’re here because you want to know: Does enjoying receptive anal sex make me gay? 

By now you’ve probably heard of the P-spot— after all, prostate orgasms are all the rage. But there’s a second P-spot that you might be overlooking: The perineum. Ahead, everything you need to know about this overlooked erogenous zone. 
there are different types of lube to choose from (which we’ll get to), simply, lube is a substance (liquid or gel) that helps to reduce friction during penetrative sex, makes oral even more slippery and delicious, and takes fingering and handjobs up several notches. It’s basically the cherry on top of an already-satisfying sexual experience.
The Cowgirl and The Unicorn can deliver plenty of ooh’s, ahh’s, and O’s on their own. But incorporating a butt plug into sex machine play can add a new flavor of pleasure to your repertoire. Here, learn exactly why you should wear a plug while your ride—plus exactly how to incorporate the plug for maximum pleasure.

You deserve a round of applause. (Yes, you, Dear Reader!). Making the decision to purchase a sex machine is something very worth celebrating. After all, investing in a sex machine is also investing in your own pleasure! However, once you decide to buy a sex machine you next need to figure out what sex machine. Arguably, The Cowgirl and The Sybian are the two most popular options. But which, between the two, is best? Read on for a side-by-side comparison of the two most popular sex machines in the world, in 5 different categories. 

Santa was fuming. Twas the night before Christmas, but all through his house… creatures were doing more than just stirring. Vixen had a habit of running off to have too much fun right before work. But this time, she took Santa’s red-nosed power-lead, Rudolph, with her. He knew he shouldn’t have unlocked Rudy’s chastity cage, but he had a big job to do and Santa was worried the constriction might keep Rudolph from flying his best. But Rudy always had a horny problem, and it had nothing to do with his antlers. Santa needed a solution… and quick if he was to spread holiday joy in time for Christmas!

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