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You’ve probably heard of the Kama Sutra—you know, the ancient text reputed to infuse your sex life with spice, sauce, and sensuality. But likely, what you’ve heard about the Kama Sutra is skewed. “Contrary to popular belief, the Kama Sutra is not merely a sex manual packed with kinky positions for lovemaking,” says sex and relationship educator ​​​​​​Barbara Santini. It also covers topics like mental well-being, platonic relationships, and nature. 

You may be turned on by a person’s feet, toes, or ankles — every foot fetishist is different. Some folks are turned on by seeing feet, others are aroused by touching or massaging them. Some treat the fetish as a form of erotic degradation — they submit to someone by kissing and worshiping that person’s feet (or, in more extreme play, being kicked and/or stepped on). For many, a foot fetish goes hand-in-hand with a fetish for certain footwear (like high-heel shoes).

Between Lollipop by Lil Wayne, Work It by Missy Elliot, and My Neck, My Beck by Khia, it seems no sex position is as sung about as oral sex—and for good reason. Full of orgasmic potential for the giver(s) and receiver(s), oral sex is one of the most intimate, pleasure-rich sex acts there is. 

Squirt(le) may be the name of a cute Pokémon and something water guns do. But squirting can also refer to the release of fluid through the urethra that some vagina-havers experience in response to sex or pleasure. Exactly how can you squirt? Sex Educator Gabrielle Kassel gives you everyting you need to know for a fountain of fun.

Hidden Valley Original… Newman’s Own Extra Creamy… Titan Men Triple Duty Fist, Fuck, and Jack Off Cream… when tossing a salad, there are many toppings at your disposal. A true chef knows that you can’t make a salad without licking a few buttholes. But perianal pleasure isn’t plainly a promenade in the petunias. Rimming done right is a full-blown act of coitus in itself and if you can’t lick it, then you’re missing out on a hole world of pleasure.

We’re diving tongue first into what it takes to reach the rectal realm of refined rimming.

Let’s talk about how to turn a good kinky romp into a great one. We know that cleanliness (unless that goes against your kink), lube, safety, and consent are hard mainstays of any sex play. In kink, we take the safety and consent a bit further to include safe words.

What’s your fantasy? No, really. What is that thing that you want to try, but you’re having a hard time finding someone who’s game? No matter how kinky, slutty, or downright nasty it might be for general society, to YOU it seems interesting or even desirable, and you want IN. Well, that’s where the Porn Star Experience comes in. Your dreams can come true, and there is a way to make your fantasy a reality, even if you have to make a few concessions.

There’s that BS myth that nipple stimulation only feels good for cis-women (not true!). Then there’s the fact that nipples are blatantly left out of the orgasm conversation when it is indeed very possible to orgasm from nipple stimulation alone! Intrigued? Read on.

Turn the intensity of partner sex up a few notches with The Cowgirl. This couples' sex machine offers unparalleled power and possibility, helping expand your and your partner’s orgasmic potential and sexual creativity.

This year, with dining establishments at limited capacity, travel bands in order, self-isolation orders in full-effect, your usual go-to gifts (restaurant vouchers, fancy-schmancy suitcases, and concert ticks), would flop. So, there’s never been a better time to go the saucy route and give ~the gift of pleasure~ with a pleasure product. Read on for everything you need to know about gifting a sex toy. 

Sex, so the saying goes, is kinda like pizza: Even when it’s bad, it’s still pretty good. As both a sex educator and person who’s had sex lacking chemistry, confidence, and communication sex, I think this quote oversells pleasure-free sex and undersells the spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical power of great sex. 

Historically, ‘vanilla’ was just an ingredient in cookies and ‘vibrate’ was something industrial machines did. These days, however, ‘vanilla’ is a specific kind of sex and ‘vibrate’ is a thing bedroom sexcessories do to increase the overall pleasure potential. Indeed, over the last few decades the sexual landscape has completely sexuality.