You’ve probably heard of the Kama Sutra—you know, the ancient text reputed to infuse your sex life with spice, sauce, and sensuality. But likely, what you’ve heard about the Kama Sutra is skewed. “Contrary to popular belief, the Kama Sutra is not merely a sex manual packed with kinky positions for lovemaking,” says sex and relationship educator Barbara Santini. It also covers topics like mental well-being, platonic relationships, and nature.
Wine and workouts can be full-bodied, sure. But orgasms? You betcha.
Behold: The Full-body orgasm.
Yes, they're as pleasurable as they sound.
Read on to learn what full-body orgasms are exactly. Plus, how to explore them—because trust, once you learn how good they feel you’ll want to.
Intimacy. You know it when you feel it. But trying to explain it will have you grasping at the alphabet the way someone might grasp their lover's hair while receiving oral. But as hard to nail down the definition of intimacy may be, it’s one of the things people most seek out during their sex session—especially when Valentine's Day circles around.
Sexual fantasies are like hemorrhoids: Most of us got ‘em, but few of us talk about ‘em. Welp, it’s time that stops now! Here, sex educators explain WTF a sexual fantasy is—plus, breakdown four of the most common sexual fantasies.
Repeat after me: The Cowgirl is a pleasure product that can be enjoyed by anyone.
Indeed, that means people of any gender, sexuality, and genital make-up can enjoy the machine, but for this article we’re not talking about that. Here, we’re talking about how to enjoy the sex machine if you’ve ever found sex painful.
Below, six tips that will help you get the most pleasure out of your sexperiences with The Cowgirl or The Unicorn—even if sex has historically been painful for you.
First things first, the cowgirl is a sex position anybody—regardless of gender, genital make up, or sexual orientation—can enjoy! That’s why it’s also sometimes known by the less-gendered terms: ‘rider-on-top’, ‘rider’, ‘cowhuman’, or ‘person-on-top’. (Because it’s best known as the cowgirl position, that’s how we’ll be referring to it moving forward).
Hate to break it to all the gardeners and landscapers out there, but dirty talk isn’t doesn’t involve talking about potting peonies or pansies. The only flowers dirty talk might involve are of the Georgia O’Keefe variety. Dirty talk is the act of using your sound box during an in-person or distanced sexual experience. Despite it’s vaguely shamey nomenclature, there is nothing unkempt or wrong about it. On the contrary, narrating before and during sex is a powerful tool for building or heightening arousal.
