The Cowgirl Blog

Hello, proud new owners of The Cowgirl or The Unicorn! Congratulations on your recent investment in your pleasure. This FAQ is your one-stop source to getting started with your sex machine.  Below, all of your pressing sex machine questions answered. 

Between Lollipop by Lil Wayne, Work It by Missy Elliot, and My Neck, My Beck by Khia, it seems no sex position is as sung about as oral sex—and for good reason. Full of orgasmic potential for the giver(s) and receiver(s), oral sex is one of the most intimate, pleasure-rich sex acts there is. 

Some things like the Wartenburg Wheel, anal beads, pumps are dubbed with pretty puzzling handles. A couples vibrator, however, is exactly as it sounds: a vibrator for partnered (or multi-partnered) play. 

You’ve probably heard of the Kama Sutra—you know, the ancient text reputed to infuse your sex life with spice, sauce, and sensuality. But likely, what you’ve heard about the Kama Sutra is skewed. “Contrary to popular belief, the Kama Sutra is not merely a sex manual packed with kinky positions for lovemaking,” says sex and relationship educator Barbara Santini. It also covers topics like mental well-being, platonic relationships, and nature.

Turn the intensity of partner sex up a few notches with The Cowgirl. This couples' sex machine offers unparalleled power and possibility, helping expand your and your partner’s orgasmic potential and sexual creativity.

Wine and workouts can be full-bodied, sure. But orgasms? You betcha. 

Behold: The Full-body orgasm. 

Yes, they're as pleasurable as they sound. 

Read on to learn what full-body orgasms are exactly. Plus, how to explore them—because trust, once you learn how good they feel you’ll want to. 

What’s your fantasy? No, really. What is that thing that you want to try, but you’re having a hard time finding someone who’s game? No matter how kinky, slutty, or downright nasty it might be for general society, to YOU it seems interesting or even desirable, and you want IN. Well, that’s where the Porn Star Experience comes in. Your dreams can come true, and there is a way to make your fantasy a reality, even if you have to make a few concessions.

Intimacy. You know it when you feel it. But trying to explain it will have you grasping at the alphabet the way someone might grasp their lover's hair while receiving oral. But as hard to nail down the definition of intimacy may be, it’s one of the things people most seek out during their sex session—especially when Valentine's Day circles around. 

Sexual fantasies are like hemorrhoids: Most of us got ‘em, but few of us talk about ‘em. Welp, it’s time that stops now! Here, sex educators explain WTF a sexual fantasy is—plus, breakdown four of the most common sexual fantasies. 

Repeat after me: The Cowgirl is a pleasure product that can be enjoyed by anyone. 

Indeed, that means people of any gender, sexuality, and genital make-up can enjoy the machine, but for this article we’re not talking about that. Here, we’re talking about how to enjoy the sex machine if you’ve ever found sex painful. 

Below, six tips that will help you get the most pleasure out of your sexperiences with The Cowgirl or The Unicorn—even if sex has historically been painful for you.  

When it comes to sexual self-confidence, that’s especially true. Being sexually self-confident doesn’t require you to have tons of partnered sexual experiences. Instead, it’s a combination of accurate information and a clear understanding of our own values, needs, and desires — all of which can be explored on your own!

First things first, the cowgirl is a sex position anybody—regardless of gender, genital make up, or sexual orientation—can enjoy! That’s why it’s also sometimes known by the less-gendered terms: ‘rider-on-top’, ‘rider’, ‘cowhuman’, or ‘person-on-top’. (Because it’s best known as the cowgirl position, that’s how we’ll be referring to it moving forward).